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		<title>Comment on She Went Crazy by Sam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 05:48:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know... This sounds like her just being a child. But instead of not knowing better like a child... She knows exactly what she is doing. She's doing it on purpose. It's like a game. She may be jealous, but i'm thinking its something else...like it could just be... and this sounds much more heinous... that she's not happy with having it almost all... she wants it ALL.

And the only way to do that is to take everything she can from you. She can make the fam think you're the bad guy and dote on her. Get a car like yours? Hey, that makes that part of her life atleast equal to you, so if she's better in other ways, she's better all around.

The thing with your mom reminds me of gma/becca. Even after all the shit becca said and did to Gma, once she was down her, gma treated her like the golden child again.

I'd seriously like to say some of her actions are from something medical, things she can't really help but that was just TOO calculated. TOO conniving. There is no way that wasn't done w/out malicious intent. I hardly ever hear from her but when I do it's always uber sweet. I mean, like... I don't know. The kind of sweet none of us are lol and it always freaks me out.

I'd look at it like this... she's your sister and she will always be your sister. But that doesn't really mean you have to go out of your way for her. You don't have to hand out. See her, etc. You may want that. I know there are/were times when I feel that way about certain family members... like, we're family/same age group... we can hang out and it will be fun! But by in large, i know that is delusional lol and those same people don't really act like people I want to spend time with anyway. Take her with a grain of salt. Day by day. Def. don't trust her though until you're sure she deserves it. I just hope your family doesn't fully fall for it. I mean, I can't picture you saying that to Britt even if you meant it. Just doesn't seem like "you" to me you know? Guess its eay for me to say cause they arent my family, but fuckem!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know&#8230; This sounds like her just being a child. But instead of not knowing better like a child&#8230; She knows exactly what she is doing. She&#8217;s doing it on purpose. It&#8217;s like a game. She may be jealous, but i&#8217;m thinking its something else&#8230;like it could just be&#8230; and this sounds much more heinous&#8230; that she&#8217;s not happy with having it almost all&#8230; she wants it ALL.</p>
<p>And the only way to do that is to take everything she can from you. She can make the fam think you&#8217;re the bad guy and dote on her. Get a car like yours? Hey, that makes that part of her life atleast equal to you, so if she&#8217;s better in other ways, she&#8217;s better all around.</p>
<p>The thing with your mom reminds me of gma/becca. Even after all the shit becca said and did to Gma, once she was down her, gma treated her like the golden child again.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d seriously like to say some of her actions are from something medical, things she can&#8217;t really help but that was just TOO calculated. TOO conniving. There is no way that wasn&#8217;t done w/out malicious intent. I hardly ever hear from her but when I do it&#8217;s always uber sweet. I mean, like&#8230; I don&#8217;t know. The kind of sweet none of us are lol and it always freaks me out.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d look at it like this&#8230; she&#8217;s your sister and she will always be your sister. But that doesn&#8217;t really mean you have to go out of your way for her. You don&#8217;t have to hand out. See her, etc. You may want that. I know there are/were times when I feel that way about certain family members&#8230; like, we&#8217;re family/same age group&#8230; we can hang out and it will be fun! But by in large, i know that is delusional lol and those same people don&#8217;t really act like people I want to spend time with anyway. Take her with a grain of salt. Day by day. Def. don&#8217;t trust her though until you&#8217;re sure she deserves it. I just hope your family doesn&#8217;t fully fall for it. I mean, I can&#8217;t picture you saying that to Britt even if you meant it. Just doesn&#8217;t seem like &#8220;you&#8221; to me you know? Guess its eay for me to say cause they arent my family, but fuckem!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Time To Hump! by wil</title>
		<link>http://benshuey.com/2007/05/time-to-hump/comment-page-1/#comment-86</link>
		<dc:creator>wil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 May 2007 03:13:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You clean up real purty, kiddo. Your hubby's a lucky man. Nice bike, too. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You clean up real purty, kiddo. Your hubby&#8217;s a lucky man. Nice bike, too. <img src='http://benshuey.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Time To Hump! by Jenn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2007 19:45:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I didn't take the bike shot.  As you ride down Deal's Gap there are professional photographers in all the good curves snapping pics.  That one's from Killboy.com...looks like when I cropped it I accidentally cropped that out!  Sorry Killboy! Giving you credit now!  As for the self-portrait, that was with my little cell phone cam.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t take the bike shot.  As you ride down Deal&#8217;s Gap there are professional photographers in all the good curves snapping pics.  That one&#8217;s from Killboy.com&#8230;looks like when I cropped it I accidentally cropped that out!  Sorry Killboy! Giving you credit now!  As for the self-portrait, that was with my little cell phone cam.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Time To Hump! by Gabrielle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gabrielle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2007 18:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jenn,

Thanks for sharing the tips. Btw, it's a great shot. What camera did you use? Thanks!</description>
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<p>Thanks for sharing the tips. Btw, it&#8217;s a great shot. What camera did you use? Thanks!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Do you AGLOCO? by Lisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Apr 2007 01:41:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, hon...can you email me your member ID so I can put you as my referral?  :)  If you don't mind, that is!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, hon&#8230;can you email me your member ID so I can put you as my referral?  <img src='http://benshuey.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  If you don&#8217;t mind, that is!</p>
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